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April 30, 2006

Life with the Chicken

Travelling with a 9-month old baby who is teething has certainly had its challenges. (One of her top front centre teeth is just about ready to cut through making our mornings such a joy.) Overall, we are proud to report that our chicken is adaptable to change and pretty easy-going.

Since our arrival in Athens, she’s tasted and enjoyed yogurt, kiwi, spinach, zucchini and her new favourite: kotopoulo … This goes against our initial decision of not feeding her meat until she turned one.

But after our recent excursion to a local supermarket (Markopoulos) in search of baby food in jars for easy transport and feeding — we discovered that “Arnaki me xorta” (baby lamb with greens) was considered appropriate for her age group (!) — who knew? So, we gave in and allowed her to sample some of our chicken souvlaki. Mealtimes will never be the same again.

Below are some of our favourite photos to date.

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April 29, 2006

The Central Market - Historic Centre

The Fresh Hotel http://www.freshhotel.gr , where we are staying for this leg of our journey, is two blocks away from the covered central meat, fish and vegetable market which dates back to 1870. These markets, while colourful, are not for the squeamish. In this area, there are pigeons the size of small squirrels; we’re convinced that they are definitely not herbivores. Here’s a sampling of the goods available for sale.

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April 27, 2006

A is for Athens

Today, Thursday, marks our first full day in Athens.

We are acclimating to the change in weather as well as the change in scenery. We spent the morning negotiating our way, on foot, through the downtown core to my father’s home in Paleon Faliron. Even though I have not visited Greece since 2001, I am still able to navigate the city without much effort.

There are glimpses of change. The transit system has undergone a major transformation since the 2004 Olympics; one can travel by tram (electric trolley), the metro (light rapid transit) or bus. After much deliberation we chose the tram. The stop left us in the vicinity of the house — there was still much walking through numerous labyrinthine side streets to my father’s (now my) home.

Visiting my father’s house, five years later, with Dev and the chicken in tow, proved to be emotional. As for my father’s old neighbourhood on Perikleous Street, everything has changed. Most of the old homes have been torn down and new high rises have been built in their stead.

My house is the same, pretty much as I remembered it, although the garden needs resuscitation. And the house itself needs a fresh coat of paint. My uncle Gerry does what he can although it is clearly evident that is was my father who initiated the renovation and upgrading of his childhood home.

Here, in this small house, once inhabited by my paternal grandparents, the outside world barely encroaches. The back garden, once civilized, is now a jungle. Banana and lemon trees, night flowering jasmine, scented geraniums, basil, ornamental peppers, date palms and grapevines all compete for space and sun. With my father gone, there is no constant gardener to maintain order.

Our tenants, who have lived in the house since 1999, were most welcoming - and embarrassed - that we arrived unannounced.

Our next get together will take place on Tuesday, after the May Day long weekend. It is then that we’ll renegotiate their lease. It is then, in meeting with our lawyer, my father’s childhood friend, that we’ll make some decisions on the future of the house on Perikleous Street.

Today, we all traipsed down the block to a local restaurant and broke bread together. Any awkwardness that may have existed quickly dissipated with each mouth-watering entree that arrived. Dev, the chicken, and I made our way back to our hotel, bellies full, batteries recharged, ready to conquer an evening of shopping and sightseeing.

Where's the Chicken?

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Greek Easter Sunday in Vancouver

April 21, 2006

For Mama on Great Friday

Mama,
there are moments
during night’s final yawn
when I can feel your warm breath
tickle my cheek.

I extend my arms only to embrace darkness.

More than anything,
I want to lay my head inside your mouth
and be swallowed whole.

I love what I do not have and
you are so far.

My final meeting concerning Mama’s care took place yesterday morning on Great Thursday. While we’re away, Mama’s medical team will keep in touch with us via cell phone or e-mail.

It is on this day that Greek households around the world dye their Easter eggs red. Only last year, Dev and I spent Great Thursday driving around the various Mediterranean delis in Victoria searching for the appropriate packets of dye so that we’d have red eggs for Pascha.

On this day, there were no dyeing of eggs, only tears.

Mama is now receiving “comfort care” as she is in the late stages of her dementia. While I met with the hospital administrator, Mama’s nurse came in and asked if she could take the chicken to visit with yia-yia. I followed soon after.

Words fall wingless as she is able to only mimic what is said.

I love you, Mama.

I love you, Mama.

Look at the chicken.

Chicken.

Mama, forgive me.

Forgive … me.


How could this happen?
How did this happen?
Is this what happens,
when you pray for a christian and peaceful end to your life?


Mama’s medical team reassures me that it is OK to travel - that we should travel, now, while there is time. And so today, on our Great Friday, the most holiest of days, Dev and I continue on with our plans. I pack in silence; Dev completes his errands.

Mama, forgive me.

Greek Orthodox Great Friday

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April 17, 2006

Family Portrait

My mother is a desert
in the deep folds of the oasis
she hides.

And in one breath
allows the possibility of rain.

She is a bell-tongued bird, black
the one who cries —

an old road left behind.

My father was an olive tree
who stood alone in the sterile land.

Now, he is an olive
hardpressed and wrinkled in brine.

He speaks promises
in the tongues of dead men.

I am open
green grass promising

With hands
I create my life
the roads I travel.

April 14, 2006

The Raising of Lazarus

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Canadian Good Friday

It is Friday, 6:30 AM, Dev and the chicken are asleep. I am sitting at the kitchen table listening to the rain and the occasional car go by on Fort Street. The window shades are still drawn. I am thinking about our upcoming Holy Week and our fast-approaching journey.

A glass of water by my side, the faint tapping of my fingers on the keyboard, my concentration is momentarily broken by the sounds of the Gregorian wind chimes that hang outside our back door. These chimes, tuned to a medieval scale, were given to me as a Christmas gift by my friend Seattle George, long ago. They didn’t find an appropriate home until I was married. The rich sounds of these eight metallic tubes comfort me as I visualize Mama, alone, on Greek Easter Sunday.

Dev, the chicken, and I will be celebrating Greek Easter with our extended family in Vancouver.

We will, tirelessly, answer questions about Mama’s health.

We will light a candle for her during the Agape Services.

We will be anxious and excited about our flight to Greece the following day.

Mama will be in Douglas House, in her Broda chair, sleeping.

Today, at 9:00 AM, I am to call Father Evangelos to arrange for Mama to have communion in preperation for Pascha.

Today, on this rainy Canadian Good Friday morning, I mourn Mama, as Mary and Martha did at the loss of their beloved brother Lazarus, some 2000 years ago.

Today, on this rainy Canadian Good Friday morning, I pray for my own Easter miracle: that the coming Christ resurrect Mama so that she is able, once again, to participate fully in our lives.

Often, poems lie

Often, poems lie.

Sometimes,
truths dangle like small
raindrops on a clothesline
water
for a hummingbird’s thirst.

Sometimes,
lies are bones
bleached and polished
by sun and wind.

My Mother Tells Me

My mother tells me
I am the cup of water
that divides angels

and through my tears
of sweet remorse
my sins
are washed away
with ivory soap
and a kiss —

I am one of the
unprepared
virgins

deceived

My Father Told Me

My father told me
God’s fingers
comb away
my sins
each morning

My father told me
when sorrow is born
it needs a human
soul to carry

and the deep nets
of pain
reach out
because we are Greek

My father told me
that broken dishes
and broken bones
and using scissors
to cut my heart

are part of the sounds
of life

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Dreaming of Ellas

Dev came home with our new suitcase this afternoon. It is a colour eponymous with Greece: a vibrant, electric blue.

It is the expanse of sea and sky.
It is the painted wooden door of a white-washed home.
It is the hull of a well-weathered fisherman’s boat.
It is the dome of a small secluded chapel.
It is a bead worn close to body to ward off the evil eye.

This blue suitcase is our talisman, a keeper of family secrets and dreams.

We soon travel to Ellas, our newly-minted family unit: Dev, myself and the chicken - to visit the home of my ancestral past and to explore a “new” Greece, one not depicted on postcards.